Soft erections are useless

Of course your Penis size matters! Why is this even up for discussion or asked as a question? If you are of average size, average length, average width then you are adequate. Serviceable. Usable. But your penis is not remarkable or magnificent, even if you are a good lover.

Some men can develop issues with the strength of their erection, especially as they age. This matters, not just to you but to your partner. This is exceptionally important. A semi soft man can not push himself into a tight woman. Or he can and it’s awkward and uncomfortable from the woman’s position. It is certainly not pleasurable or erotic.

If your penis is of average size or under, if you can not keep or sustain an erection, if your cock is only at it’s hardest, just before you ejaculate, then please do not bother trying to seek out a sexual partner who likes anything other than oral because your penis can only be used in an auxiliary manner as at least 33% of women prefer penetration over anything you can do with your mouth or fingers.

We want a cock, not a cuddle. We want to be fucked and not licked. We need penetration from a hard cock that we can feel push us apart over a grinding masturbatory motion from someone we are unsure of is even capable of entering us like we want, need and deserve. And don’t lie about your abilities or issues as you won’t get a chance to redeem yourself. There is always someone willing and able to take your place.